Bit stuck with this whole direct connect
 

Hey all!!i'm new to this whole Forum thing!so bare with me please...ok the reason i'm posting is because i recently downed the beta version and seen this direct connect tab...thought u beaut!! so I told my friend bout this awsome thing in the new version and she downed it straight away...only thing is...she doesnt have a IP number!! and she is unable to view my share folder....we've set our firewalls so they allow gnutella...makes no difference..she's set to share her folders and everything...So yeh, i'm just wondering if anyone has any ideas??????? thanks!

do you know each others Gnutella port? (It's hidden somewhere in the options).