Tried everything and still have a firewall.....

I have configured the windows xp firewall, even defaulted the settings and let limewire add itself as an exception. I have norton and added limewire as an exception to everything, worm protection, etc.. My router is configured UPnP enabled, what else can I do?

I have a strong signal but am not getting very many search results and under the "hosts" it only shows outgoing????

I have been working on this for three days! I have done the firewall exceptions on Windows firewall and Norton Internet Security. I've added ports. I've downloaded earlier versions of LW that worked. I have port forwarded. I have added ports to the firewall exceptions list. I have even done a system restore to a date when LW was working just a few months ago. NOTHING is working.

HELP!!!

1. OS version? Windows XP.
2. What firewalls you have? Windows (off) NAV
3. How much ram? 1.00 GB
4. Hard Disk space available? 16 gb
5. Connection type? (eg: dialup, broadband, cable, etc.) cable
6. Modem & router brand name & model numbers? Linksys WRT54GS v.7 router, Modem Lynksis BEFCMU10 ver.4
7. Where are you trying to connect from (house, appartment complex, school, student accomodation, work, etc.)? house
8. What version of LimeWire ? LW 4.16.7, JAVA 1.6_06 (version 6 update 6)
9. Who is your ISP (Internet Service Provider)? cox.net
10. Do this simple test for us. Using your browser go here: http://www3.limewire.com:6346/ The page should say 'Your test worked!'. What happens when you go there? it says "your test worked!"
11. Are you sharing the connection with other computers or p2p sharing programs? my spouse connects to the same wireless. secure connection, wep
12. Is this a your 1st try at LW or is this a new problem with an experienced user. I've used LW successfully for many years
13. Do you see a brick wall in front of the blue world icon at the bottom of LW's interface? _ yes
14. For those using a modem/router, how is your modem/router set up...are you port forwarding or is UPnP enabled? UPnP is enabled
15. What security programs are you using (antivirus etc)? windows firewall is off, Norton Internet Security Allows LW
16. What country are you living in? USA,