Thanks for all of the help guys! After I port forwarded, the direct connect text changed to my IP address and other stuff. I think that this means it works now. I'll test it...

Something is wrong! It suddenly stopped working! the brick wall came back, I can't direct connect, and the "received incoming this session" is false! The power went out for about 20 seconds, yesterday. Cold this be the cause? I checked the router configuration, and it is the same. I check the windows firewall options, and the ports were wrong, but the were wrong before and it still worked. i set them correctly and I'm hoping that that will fix this, but I don't see any reason why it would...

This is very strange, it has gone away now, and I can make direct connections. I am going to have to tweak some things to see what caused this...