Thank you all for keeping with me

Here are a few added things I notice that might help and some details.

1. A line travels from my wall to a router and out of that router are three cables. One goes to a wireless router for an office computer, another goes to someone elses compture in the house. (They have zone alarm on their comp) the third cable goes to my computer. The reason for saying this is that I read somewhere that when several connections share a common router, the router itself can establish itself as a firewall. I don't know what to do about that.

2. I have tried running other p2p programs and they won't work... they state that they cannot open the neccesary ports.
(I may have already said this but I have no firewall on my comp, and I personally deleted the windows firewall, its annoying)

3. I have a Netopia router 3364,
I am based in the cayman Islands. (I state that not as personal info but needed, on the net I sometimes notice the Cayman router is specifically stated as such)

4. I checked on that line in the bug area of limewire and it states false (indicacting I have my invisible firewall)

That is all I can think of for now, I will listen for more, thanks again