I have been through 3 verisons of LimeWire. I have used 4.13.1, 4.14 BETA and now 4.14 Final. and all of them have crashed when I open my library. This has just started happening in the past month. Before now it has never happend is there somthing I can do to fix this?

Have you updated your Java version in the last month? Try this version instead. Use the JRE offline installer & remove any other Java versions before installing this one.
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Next, delete LW's preferences folder when LW's properly closed. See point 3 here & also point 2 if you've used older versions of LW in the past (there could be a folder in either location).
Fixes for LimeWire
This will kill all of your settings within options, you'll have to go back through afterwards & reset things. If you're not sure of your settings, go through LW's tools > options & write them all down, so that you can reset things later.

Also try changing compatibility (point 5 in the 'fixes' thread).

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