Ok finally set up ! The easiest way i found to set up the ZA was to uninstall it then with LW running re-install it, The router was set to disable Upnp by default (something worth checking in your router settings as my box says Upnp set to enable by default) ,,,, now there is no wall in my LW FW icon and the session is as follows ,,, Is this now right ?



-- listing session information --
Current thread: AWT-EventQueue-0
Active Threads: 17
Uptime: 11:32
Is Connected: true
Number of Ultrapeer -> Ultrapeer Connections: 0
Number of Ultrapeer -> Leaf Connections: 0
Number of Leaf -> Ultrapeer Connections: 5
Number of Old Connections: 0
Acting as Ultrapeer: false
Acting as Shielded Leaf: true
Number of Active Uploads: 0
Number of Queued Uploads: 0
Number of Active Managed Downloads: 0
Number of Active HTTP Downloaders: 0
Number of Waiting Downloads: 0
Received incoming this session: true
Number of Shared Files: 30
Guess Capable: false
Received Solicited UDP: true
SIMPP version: 54
Port Stable: true
FWT Capable: true
Last Reported Port: 32824
External Port: 32824
IP Pongs Received: 0
Number of Content Response URNs: 0
Number of CreationTimeCache URNs: 24
VF Byte Cache Size: 0
VF Verify Cache Size: 0
VF Queue Size: 0
ByteBuffer Cache Size: 0
Number of Waiting Sockets: 0
Number of Pending Timeouts: 0

Looks alright now.

If your friends set up is correct as well, then you should be able to direct-connect. If that works then there is no doubt that the set up is correct

BTW if you use UPnP without a static IP then there is a chance that your IP will change often. Just look under the direct connect tab in Limewire after opening it. It will show IP+Portnumber. That's the exact number she would have to enter to connect to you.