it looks like this one: WGR614

i think its this: DG834GT

Here are your instructions for Port Forwarding your router...
Port Forwarding for the Netgear DG834GT

Sky Broadband in the UK also have a Fair Use Policy in place, so you may have to give them a call and see what they are doing towards their shaping of p2p...

i have done the port forwarding thing but still nothering!

Is there anything else i can try because i've tried all the things thats been advised?

Where you absolutely sure that the model number was DG834GT and not WGR614 ??

Yeah its deffo DG834GT

Try these fixes...
Try uninstalling your Java from the add/remove programs and then re-install the JRE 5.11 offline version....
Archive: Download Java 2 Platform Standard Edition (J2SE) 5.0 Update 11

If that does not help with your problem try deleting your preference folder...
Fixes for Limewire when LW isn't operating as it should

Let me know how you get on with that..;)

It's working!!!!!
Your truly fantastic!!!!!
I'd like to thank everone for the help you have all given me in getting my problem resolved!!!!!
many thanks
Si