This looks like you're being blocked by your university.

As a very simple test you could try to chagnge the network name. You won't be able to connect that way, but you can test on what level you're being blocked.

Go into Phex -> Network -> select network
and change the name to something else (This is essentially the same you'd do for forming a private network).

Now please check, if the status of the host still shows connection only, or if it shows soem other values.

Besides: p2p from universities is often forbidden by school rules. I'd think twice about it.

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