You need to check, if your computer is reachable in your LAN (i.e. not firewalled). Do you see a little burning wall of bricks in the lower left corner of your Phex window?

If yes: Google your router type and “port forward”. Then look in the network tab of phex. The number after the : of your own address is your port. Forward that and it should work better.

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