Lime with Itunes Shared folder

ok well if i put a shared folder on limewire i get it on itunes but i dont want to share so how do i get my tunes in itunes with out shareing (in shared folder in itunes) do you understand? i want them in a shared folder so i can get it on my other computer, i see the folder but my music isnt in there, how can i set it up so that what ever i download i get in the shared folder, with out shareing to everyone?

Your post's a bit confusing, so I hope this helps

If you don't want to see the 'your name LimeWire Tunes' within iTunes, turn off iTunes sharing. In LW tools > options > iTunes. Untick 'share my music' > apply > ok.