please help!!!
 

I need to know how to delete all incoming searches from the monitor tab.......(i will be in a lot of trouble with the wifey)if she see's some of these things :)

Just uncheck the 'Enable' box and it will not show any incoming searches :)

what she said :) the last results from before you unchecked the box will stay there though until you restart. To get rid of them without restarting LW, set show last _ searches to 1, wait until it's something your wife won't get pissed about, then uncheck the Enable box.

KathW's suggestion was pretty much all you need to know though