Lil' Sis:

I've been on this Earth for 42 yrs. and I've learned some things and have quite a bit more to learn, as do you. What we all were trying to say to you is that it's not about that, you were bringing a racial element into a place where there's no need for it and actually, we were trying to help you out, but it's clear ya not tryin' to hear dat! If my actions are interpreted as being "wit da othas", I'll be that, girl. I'm a human, first, a strong, African-American woman, second and I'm happy with that! It helps ME sleep better at night...