can someone please tell me how to get the songs I have downloaded to "my music" or to my windows media player library. After downloading, they seem to just stay in the Lime wire library, which is fine for the file sharing purpose, but I would like to listen to the music from another program. ANy suggestions??????

Using WMP you can do a media scan for your whole computer. This will find them.

Best solution is to move the songs out of LW's Shared folder & into another music folder. Then add that folder as another folder to share. To do this go to LW's Library window, menu File>Add Folder to Share & direct it to where your music folder is.
Now to get to your shared folder, go to your LW Library window & select either Saved Files folder or Shared & press the Explore button. This will open the folder up for you. You can then move the files to a music folder that you can use WMP to open from. Sound good?!