Grey language box
 

when I first started up lime wire i got the normal tanish boxes but it froze when I was trying to select the share folder it froze so i had to exit it now i have tryed instaling/unistaling limewire sseveral time and all i get is a stupid grey box that has language select in a blue bar at the top. i would apreciate some help.

See The way to fix the Blank screen on startup & see if that's your problem. I would also recommend the "offline" LW installer: http://www.limewire.com/english/content/download.shtml