You'll have to remember some basic rulles... here are the reasons:

1. They had shutedDown their comps.
2. They are not sharing any files.
3. They may be using other p2p programs and therefor# are a little hard to connect to...

For the 2nd ones you can limit their acces to your computer:
tool->options->advanced->preferencing
change the files you must share... to 10...100 and drag the slider to Rarely

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Now... Verry slowlly... Put the gun to your head... slow... spin the cylinder... pull the trigger !!!

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