I use windows XP pro. My media player is iTunes. I have just started to use Limewire. It rocks!

My daughter uses Mac and when she downloads from Limewire the tunes automatically end up in her iTunes library. It even opens her iTunes program for her.

I am using my iTunes music folder as the target to save my downloads to. They do appear. But they do not automatically appear in my Library when I open the iTunes player. I have to do a manual "add file to library" Can anyone help me?