Details, Details, Details, Details, & more details! That's what's needed! You haven't given us enough to work with.
Can you give us a total desciption of your set up:
1. OSX version?
2. What firewalls you have?
3. ram?
4. HDD space available?
5. Connection type?
6. Modem & router brand name & model numbers?
7. Where are you trying to connect from (home, school, work, etc.)? |