See if this helps:
http://www.gnutellaforums.com/showth...threadid=34114
In future please keep all your posts to the one topic!!! Press the Reply button not new thread button. Otherwise we will start to ignore your posts:
http://www.gnutellaforums.com/announ...?s=&forumid=29
By the way if Force IP doesn't work very well, then use UPnP instead if you're using LW 4.4 or 4.6