That´s the problem, I can see his IP address but he doesn´t see mine. When I click on direct connect it says people can´t connect to me because I am behind a firewall...which is bullshit cause I disabled it for the whole system. The problem is on my end,but I dunno what it is.I do have the chat enabled and I can chat with others but it is always me who must start the chat conversation. I can browse them, but they can not browse me. What about that "Manual Port Forward"? Should I mark it? I have it on "Use UPnP" right now.