Thanks for your reply. it wasn't Java, though (though it could be for someone else maybe?) I was stumped and kept searching online for the erros 06 : 0000 : 0000813, etc., and finally found a link about this exe file called Kb891711. I had never heard of it but as I read it I saw it was a MS update file people were installing as a critical update and having the same problems I was (though no one mentioned Limewire specifically), most mentioned were blue screen errors. I read extensively for an hour and then decided to "unclick" the file in the msconfig section. IT WORKED! I'm still nervous about not having a critical update file that I was told to have, but will cross that bridge later.

Good luck, everyone having this problem!