You said you forwarded a port but are you sure you set it up correctly & your ip is definitely static. It must be static else it won't work. For directions see:
http://www.portforward.com/netgear/mr814.htm & also
Netgear support for MR814
After setting this up or at least checking the set-up, re-do the original port test:
http://www3.limewire.com:6346/ The page should say 'Your test worked!'