This section is not intended for connection problems. So which program are you using? This forum caters for many gnutella programs. You should have posted in that program's particular section. If you are using LW, then see the BIG RED STICKY at the top of the section that says, Limewire users do not post your questions here. Oh & BTW read the
Forum Rules (click here) which are also listed at the top of every section of the forum above all the Stickys which have answers to the most commonly asked questions for that section.