loved Limewire, but now ita all about FrostWire. (cool name btw)

my story is,

i download and install on my main pc and everything works. getting Excellent Connection and show not behind a firewall. but im using Outpost.

next install on my laptop but this time it gets Starting Connection. plus it shows its behing firewall. also using Outpost.

Both pc are 99% same setup with same software. XP Pro + SP2 + Java 1.5.05

both on the same workgroup on a router. i gave each their own port access on the router.

i try also everything i read here and on limewire forum.

Need help guys if anyone got a clue.

thanks..