if what you are saying is: you don't burn cd's for your friends?
oh o.k....

there's loads of info in this forum for your questions. but if you want a specific response, don't ever say you won't give music away in a p2p filesharing program. you might search on freeloaders.
just to give you the benefit of the doubt, i think you have to have i-tunes for i-pod. it converts ext for the i-pod.