Okay I got it to work finally!! The first thing i did was uninstall norton. I couldnt find my disc for it, so i just enabled xp firewall and of course configured it to allow limewire!!) Then I took the adviced that was given, options advanced, firewall config, then allow upnp, then apply. ALl of the sudden its working. Now i'm worried if I'm okay without norton, at least untill i find my disc to reinstall.!!! So try that!!
Thanks for everyones help!!!