ok i am runnin xp pro and i have disabled all fire walls and also tried activating it and setting up the gnutella listening ports as i have read everywere

still no good
it always says that it is tring to connect.
and also detects a firewall even when i got them turned off
i am on adsl and i am using a D-Link adsl modem and a D-Link Residential gateway router,........

any help please??????