okay, i am trying those port numbers, hopefully one will work. i also have to change it on my system preferences right? i say new and put in the new number, turn off the old firewall 6346 yes? and for exazmple if the number is 10000 i change it on both ports, listening and manual?
also, before, next to the brick wall it said 'starting connection' but that would stay there the whole time it was on, it is not doing that now.