Why not change her LW settings. Go to LW's menu bar, Tools>Options>Speed & change setting to Modem & disable Ultrapeer capabilities. Then go to Options>Downlds & change speed to 95% of that which will be about 6.9 KB/s. And Options>Uploads>Basic & move slider to about 75%. This should give you plenty more bandwidth for your purposes & also allow her to do her thing.