So, you tried Bearshare, but don't like the spyware plugin.
You tried Gnotella and miss some refinements.
You tried Limewire and hate the slowness and few features.
And the others? Way below all of the above.

Now go and try PHEX!!!! Current version is 0.41.
It is truly full of promise. Download resume, looking for more file download sites automatically, matching up filesizes and so much more.
Runs on VB but very fast (much faster then Limewire).
Try it! Search www.google and you'll find the sites to download it from.

I ONLY use PHEX now plus Gnotella 0.99.
They both compare well with each other, compensating each others features.

The rest? Good for learning about Gnutella. Not for serious file sharing P2P.
If you like to have all your details logged, you may as well us Napster, or whatever, sharing through central servers, with all your details uploaded!

Go PHEX, and tell your experience.

JD