I'm sure you're aware that these are the GNUTELLA FORUMS and not the LimeWire forums,......
The assumption that there is one golden solution for a similar problem users experience is, unfortunately, an old wives tale.
Even at to computers with the exact same configuration any program can act in a different way.
So, this time the "final" solution of the other user didn't work out for you. That means that ther might be a slight difference of your both setups.
I would recommend you reading the post of LOTR in the following thread and try to use the suggestions there to see if your problem can be solved with it:
http://www.gnutellaforums.com/showth...threadid=39600 