Your router should be UPnP enabled. Some Linksys models, however, have some firmware issues & don't work well in UPnP mode. See tips about this under UPnP here:
http://www.gnutellaforums.com/showth...threadid=51357
in the worst case you might have to portforward:
http://www.portforward.com/english/r...outerindex.htm