LW might be detecting a firewall within your modem/router. Check out the thread below, it has heaps of info about enabling UPnP & port forwarding to overcome the problem
Connection problems? Check here first!
If you're still stuck, post back with your details
OS(Win XP etc)
LW & Java version (help > about LW & you'll see)
Firewall you're using
Modem/router brand & model
ISP
Connection type (DSL etc)
Where you connect from (home, school etc)
Are you sharing a connection with other computers
Is this your first try with LW