btw just read i need to give information, here it is,

1. OS version? Windows xp
2. What firewalls you have? just the windows one in control panel
3. How much ram? 512 mb
4. Hard Disk space available?
5. Connection type? (eg: dialup, broadband, cable, etc.) Broadband
6. Modem & router brand name & model numbers? bt Voyager 205
7. Where are you trying to connect from (home, school, work, etc.)? home
8. What version of FrostWire (FW) & Java do you have? (Go to FW's menu Help>About FW...) Will show both FW & Java version.4.12.3 and java 1.50.0_06
9. Who is your ISP provider (Internet Service Provider)? Bt
10. Are you sharing the connection with other computers or p2p sharing programs? If yes, please give details of set up.nope
11. Is this a your 1st try at FW or is this a new problem with an experienced user. new problem
12. Do you see a brick wall in front of the blue world icon at the bottom of FW's interface? yes i do, whats this mean?