Yea true, anyway as ya here i might aswell ask, all my files are in the right place right my friends trying to download a file from me, direct connections wont work on my pc cos of my router and firewall (to much to change all the settings) anyway i changed the file to something unusual as to not get so many searches come up on her pc , but when she types in the file name she doesnt get it come up in her list to download but i can see under my monitor tag that its been searched ,,, do you know y this is ? ill post this aswell ....