I'm also unable to connect and get the same "Could not find a port to use for incoming connections. Please specify a port from the configure window" message. Tried the Start/Run Telnet test (it works) and the File>Connect and can't get a connection. I'm using Norton Internet Security and told it to always allow Lime Wire to connect. OS is Wi***. Has anyone else had problems with Norton I.S.? I've tried turning it off completely but no change.