Tried to find you, no luck. Are you sure that you are set up right?

PM = Personal Message. Click on my username and choose send personal message. Posting IPs in the public forum is not allowed and also any hacker will see it there.

To find your IP (If you are set up right for sharing) press the Direct Connect tab under where you put your search criterias.

It will either tell you your IP+Portnumber or it will say 'you are behind a firewall'

This is a good way to check your connection too, because if it says that you are behind a firewall, then people may not have full access to what you share