I cannot connect, it hangs on "starting connection" with a firewall wall showing.

Its not just limewire tho, Ares wont connect, it hangs on connecting as does DC++, frostwire and probably everything else...

I have Tiscali as my ISP (and I think with BT it worked fine) and I know all about them BUT I think it might have something to do with my new (ish) router.

I have a linksys wireless G router (WAG354G v2) and p2np is enabled. Not sure what other settings I need to setup if any? I tried disabling both the built in router firewall and my sygate firewall but that made no difference.

What else can I try? Limewire did used to connect sometimes but now its almost never.

thanks