Wow. Thank you again. I didn't know you could do that. I don't have it configured correctly though I guess because it says "your computer is behind a firewall or router and cannot receive direct connections." I've added Limewire to my allowed programs in ZoneAlarm so am not sure what other firewall it's talking about because I did read the sticky's on connection problems before I posted and remember seeing that Limewire automatically is ok'd by Windows ........ or something like that.
eta: No, I didn't see any brick wall shown, but I shut down ZoneAlarm to see if it would work without it and it does, I typed in my own IP address it showed and my folder and files pops right up. So it looks like there's something I need to adjust in ZoneAlarm to allow it. Thanks so much!