I have also been trying to break my firewall (also 4 days) to allow uploads, and find the threads and port discussions not easy to follow. I have about 40 pages of printouts. and still haven't succeeded - yet. It is driving me . In my sys prefs>sharing>firewall>LW>TCP/UDP the port No is 6346. In LW>Prefs>Advanced>Firewall config the listening and manual port forward No is 46964. Not sure if they should all be the same? Still trying to work it out.
Will persevere. Assume you have www.portfoward.com/help/portfowarding.htm
Another thread which may help is Gnutella Forums>Gnutella News and Gnutelliums Forums>Tips&Tricks>Firewall & Port Setting - Some Useful Links.
Still hard to follow though as terms such as static ip, your computer's ip and just ip addresses are seemingly used interchangeably.
Anyway, Good Luck
PS: Are you able to d/l? I still can even with the wall.