Are you sure that you deleted the preferences folder properly? It's just that deleting that folder has fixed this problem for quite a few people. Remember that LW has to be properly closed before deleting the prefs.
Try the latest LW Beta version (4.13.14) & see it that behaves any differently. You'll find a link for the Beta download on the usual LW download page.
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What version of Java were you using when things were working well? Some people have had problems with Java 1.6.0_01...you could try using this version of Java instead. Use the JRE offline installer & remove your current Java version(s) before you install this one.
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If that doesn't help & you want to go back to Java 1.6.0_01, find it from the list of archived versions here
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