Killahsmoke,
Has LW worked since you upgraded to Java 1.6.0_02? A few people have had problems with that version. Try this one instead. Use the JRE offline installer & remove your current Java version(s) before installing this one.
Archive: Download Java 2 Platform Standard Edition (J2SE) 5.0 Update 11
Make sure that you don't have a Windstream firewall running as well. Check out the thread below.
Cant Connect
Also delete LW's preferences folder when LW's properly closed. See point 3 here & also point 2 if you've used older versions of LW in the past (there could be a folder in either location).
Fixes for LimeWire
This will kill all of your settings within options, you'll have to go back through afterwards & reset things. If you're not sure of your settings, go through LW's tools > options & write them all down, so that you can reset things later.
Your Speedstream 4200 has a firewall. Try port forwarding, the instructions are here.
Port Forwarding for the Siemens 4200
Don't forget the step of setting up a static IP address first. LW's listening port, port in the 'manual port forward' box & port forwarded within the Speedstream all have to be the same number
Knight35,
Install the Java version that I recommended for Killahsmoke (1.5.0_11).
Also delete your preferences folder as I recommended for Killahsmoke.
Make sure that your Defender Pro firewall's still allowing LW.
What's the model of your Actiontec?