I fixed my problem.
I got to thinking about what could be the problem and it turns out I was pointing my Library to a server drive. (Yes I have a server at my house)
When I pointed my Library to a local drive that didn't have much music on it it stated up and responded normally.
My server drive has all my music on it about 2000 songs.
Maybe it couldn't talk to fast to the Library for some reason.
Thanks