IT STAYS AT STARTIN CONNECTION WHEN I RUN LW...WITH ONE GREEN BAR...

IVE TRIED SOME THINGS WITH WONDERING WHY...I HAVE BEEN MESSING WITH MY ANTIVIRUS...THERE IS A WAY THAT I CAN ENABLE THE TCP AND UDP PORTS I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO PUT IN THERE...I WANT TO GIVE IT ONE MORE SHOT BEFORE I GIVE UP COMPLETELY...DOES N E ONE HAVE THE PATIENCE TO TRY THIS AGAIN WITH ME?

1. OS version? XP HOME EDITION
2. What firewalls you have? ?? WINDOWS LIVE ONE CARE
3. How much ram? ?? PHYSICAL MEMORY 252,904 KB
4. Hard Disk space available? 16.4KB
5. Connection type? CABLE
6. Modem & router brand name & model numbers? RCA MODEM DCM425
7. Where are you trying to connect from HOME
8. What version of LimeWire (LW) & Java do you have? LW = 4.12.15 PRO JAVA = 1.5.0_11
9. Who is your ISP MEDIACOM
10. Do this simple test for us. Using your browser go here: http://www3.limewire.com:6346/ The page should say 'Your test worked!'. What happens when you go there? IT WORKED
11. Are you sharing the connection with other computers or p2p sharing programs? If yes, please give details of set up. ??I DONT THINK SO
12. Is this a your 1st try at LW or is this a new problem with an experienced user. 1ST TRY ON THIS COMP BUT EXPERIENCED
13. Do you see a brick wall in front of the blue world icon at the bottom of LW's interface? YES
http://www.gnutellaforums.com/attach...1&d=1158099342
14. For those using a modem/router, how is your modem/router set up...are you port forwarding or is UPnP enabled? UPnP
15. What security programs are you using (antivirus etc)? Some people might not be aware that their security suite includes a firewall WINDOWS LIVE ONE CARE
16. What country are you living in? USA