thatgirl101...I don't think Remoc is suggesting you change your ISP, but if you go through the links he gave you will find that AOL security can be the cause of your problems, therefore uninstalling that may help...
There are plenty of very good free Spyware apps ...
Ad-Aware __(FREE) Spybot - Search & Destroy __(FREE) AVG Antispyware (formerly Ewido)
You can also give this a shot as well...
Try uninstalling all versions of Java from the add/remove programs and then re-install the JRE 5.11 offline version....
Archive: Download Java 2 Platform Standard Edition (J2SE) 5.0 Update 11
If that does not help with your problem try deleting your preference folder/s...This will reset your configurations back to default and get rid of any corruption that may of happened...
Fixes for Limewire when LW isn't operating as it should