no i really can't find them

it gave this as an error after that darn auto update, i had to reinstall and i lost all my songs....

LimeWire version 4.14.10
Java version 1.6.0_02 from Sun Microsystems Inc.
Windows XP v. 5.1 on x86
Free/total memory: 4065808/5177344
com.limegroup.gnutella.gui.GUILoader$StartupFailed Exception: invalid themes.jar
at com.limegroup.gnutella.gui.GUILoader.sanityCheck(G UILoader.java:289)
at com.limegroup.gnutella.gui.GUILoader.load(GUILoade r.java:57)
at sun.reflect.NativeMethodAccessorImpl.invoke0(Nativ e Method)
at sun.reflect.NativeMethodAccessorImpl.invoke(Unknow n Source)
at sun.reflect.DelegatingMethodAccessorImpl.invoke(Un known Source)
at java.lang.reflect.Method.invoke(Unknown Source)
at com.limegroup.gnutella.gui.Main.main(Main.java:45)
STARTUP ERROR!


FILES IN CURRENT DIRECTORY:
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\clink.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717109890
SIZE: 622008
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\commons-httpclient.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717109953
SIZE: 445371
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\commons-logging.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717109984
SIZE: 59154
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\commons-net.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717110031
SIZE: 355370
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\commons-pool.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717110062
SIZE: 158968
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\daap.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717110125
SIZE: 375837
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\foxtrot.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717110156
SIZE: 44273
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\hashes
LAST MODIFIED: 1190038886828
SIZE: 210
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\httpcore-nio.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717110187
SIZE: 257183
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\httpcore.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717110234
SIZE: 273935
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\icu4j.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717110296
SIZE: 741440
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\id3v2.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717110343
SIZE: 94018
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\jcraft.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717110375
SIZE: 136693
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\jdic.dll
LAST MODIFIED: 1190038752125
SIZE: 110592
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\jdic.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717110406
SIZE: 96604
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\jdic_stub.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717110437
SIZE: 64134
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\jl011.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717110531
SIZE: 255016
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\jmdns.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717110562
SIZE: 69306
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\LimeWire.ico
LAST MODIFIED: 1190038751687
SIZE: 25214
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\LimeWire.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717108140
SIZE: 10654460
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\log4j.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717110640
SIZE: 677952
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\log4j.properties
LAST MODIFIED: 1190038756281
SIZE: 7171
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\looks.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717110718
SIZE: 630634
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\MessagesBundles.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717109781
SIZE: 4279781
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\mp3sp14.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717110750
SIZE: 40064
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\ProgressTabs.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717109828
SIZE: 5786
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\SystemUtilities.dll
LAST MODIFIED: 1190038751843
SIZE: 90112
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\SystemUtilitiesA.dll
LAST MODIFIED: 1190038751984
SIZE: 86016
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\themes.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717110781
SIZE: 690764
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\tray.dll
LAST MODIFIED: 1190038753562
SIZE: 45056
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\tritonus.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717110828
SIZE: 152711
C:\Program Files\LimeWire\lib\vorbis.jar
LAST MODIFIED: 1190717110843
SIZE: 27215


problems i have and that i want to solve... ;

- i can only open my songs with windows mp by clicking explore in my library ; how can i make sure they open in wmp just by clicking on them in limewire itself??

- how can i make sur this auto update doesn't delete my files again??
in what folder can i copy/put them to make sure they're safe???