This could be a lot of the problem.
AOL is known for problems when it comes to p2p apps...
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Use only one Firewall as two may conflict with each other. Disable the Windows Firewall.
Your Java is a little outdated.
Try Uninstalling all versions of Java from the add/remove programs and then re-install the JRE 5.11 offline version....
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