Don't have multiple firewalls running...they'll clash with each other. Choose 1, make sure that it's configured to allow LW & turn the other 2 off

Delete LW's preferences folder when LW's properly closed. See point 3 here & also point 2 if you've used older versions of LW in the past (there could be a folder in either location).
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This will change all of your settings within options, you'll have to go back through afterwards & reset things. If you're not sure of your settings, go through LW's tools > options & write them all down, so that you can reset things later.

If that doesn't help, try this older version of Java. Download the JRE offline installer & remove any other Java versions before you install this one.
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Have you always seen the firewall icon, when LW was connecting properly? What's the model of your Speedstream?