The instructions on my modem simply state that I should plug it in and it should work. (After turning on the TCP/IP stuff)

There is no way to configure the UPnP stuff in the instructions. And again the manufacturer says that the modem does not try to block, or filter anything. It just lets anything and everything pass through from the computer to the internet. I am using a Motorola Surfboard SB5101. Oh, and I still can't Direct Connect to anyone.

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