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Where do I enable NPnP in xp?

ICMP is not listed in modem settings.

In win firewall, there is not an option to turn ICMP off. There's 10 check-boxes. The 1st one is checked (allow incomming echo), the rest are not. Do I need to check any of these?

If I am ever able to connect to www3.limewire.com6346 and think I'm good to go, How do I know if the server is slow or I'm not connected?