Jeez, all I want is how to fix it, I tried everywhere else and no one has an easy answer anymore.

1. OS version? XP SP2
2. What firewalls you have? I'm sure Windows is the only one, but McAfee probably has one too
3. How much ram? Recent upgrade to 512MB
4. Hard Disk space available? 77 GB
5. Connection type? DSL
6. Modem & router brand name & model numbers? No idea
7. Where are you trying to connect from? My home
8. What version of LimeWire (LW) & Java do you have? Both are most recent.
9. Who is your ISP? Verizon
10. Do this simple test for us. What happens when you go there? It worked
11. Are you sharing the connection with other computers or p2p sharing programs? No
12. Is this a your 1st try at LW or is this a new problem with an experienced user. First try
13. Do you see a brick wall in front of the blue world icon at the bottom of LW's interface? _Yes
14. For those using a modem/router, how is your modem/router set up...are you port forwarding or is UPnP enabled? I couldn't tell you.
15. What security programs are you using (antivirus etc)? McAfee
16. What country are you living in? US